Showing posts with label church. Show all posts
Showing posts with label church. Show all posts

Monday, January 21, 2008

It's been 7 years...

About 9 months ago I sat down to have a chat with one of our church leaders about the necessity of giving a portion of our church budget into our local community (in a few ways we had but it was always an excess of funds or some one's pet project).  I was trying to persuade him toward a large portion (20-30%) now and more in the future.  Nodded politely and added his thoughts here and there, but nothing much came of it at least not yet.  

Seven years ago I visited Mars Hill Bible Church for the first time.  I was a timid college freshman with little to do with anyone except my friend Jeff.  He was from the area and I was just floating from friend to friend on Sundays going to their churches (then three weeks later I would start over again).  He went to Mars Hill.  I had heard of it.  Not much though.  I heard they met in a mall and that it was pretty big.  I went.  I remember entering the main auditorium (former department store) thinking how drab it was, "I thought big churches were supposed to have fancy lighting systems and video screens," I asked Jeff.  He hardly ever answered direct questions.  The room and stage were set up in-the-round almost as to invite conversation.  I heard the most amazing sermon from the book of Leviticus that had ever graced my ears (I remember asking my dad to skip Leviticus in our family devotions because it was just really dry and boring - he did). The speaker had volunteers from the congregation dress in period clothing and carry with them (fake) dead animals, have make-up put on them of infectious diseases, and all sorts of other stuff that just made the passage so much more real.  It just wasn't a list of laws.    I remember on that day thinking that the bible has been made so much clearer now than every before.  

I loved my experience but hadn't been back since.

Shari and I drove up to Grand Rapids on Sunday Morning to meet a couple friends of ours who we hadn't seen in a while and to visit Mars again.  It didn't take long for me to notice the same drab room set up in the same conversation igniting round format.  The congregation was asked if there were any serious Lego builders among them - you know the engineering type.  Eight were selected to fashion what ever they could from the Legos on the stage - the more creative the better - during the sermon.  I have never felt more secure in my relationship with God knowing that Jesus take the pieces of our lives that we just don't know what to do with and makes a masterpiece out of us for himself.  

In seven years not much seemed to change but the buzz in the air seemed as though there was a lot that had changed and a lot of change was happening.  Talking with my friend I came to find that a large portion of the giving that comes into Mars is given back to the local and global community.  I just felt like we visited a community that was finally in but not of.  

Sunday, September 30, 2007

Umm... I'm really not sure what to say....

Dear Sugar Grove Church Family

It is with a great sadness that I share some important news with you. For the past year, God has been working in the lives of both Shari and I to help us understand his will. We were caught off guard at the resignation of Pastor Roger as were all of you. We knew that God had a plan and purpose for us here at Sugar Grove and we gladly accepted that opportunity and privilege to serve him and you.

It became abundantly clear this past week that God’s plan for us was to help this church and its teenagers struggle through this time of transition when the Elder Board, expressed to me that I am not a fit for the staff that they are trying to build here at Sugar Grove and that it would be a good idea for me to submit my resignation. In turn I tendered my resignation to the Board of Elders on Tuesday, September 25th.
I wanted to take some time and thank you for the wonderful support that you have given Shari and I as we desired to serve you the best way we know how. Thank you so much for all of the support that you have given us by your prayers, kind words, and volunteering to help with the Youth Ministry. Our time here has been a blessing on our hearts.
As we nervously, yet confidently, take the next step in our ministry please pray with us that God’s will for our lives will be made clear. We don’t know what God would have for us next, but as soon as we know we will let you know. Our final Sunday of ministry at Sugar Grove Church will be October 14th.

Thank you,

Joel Wolfgang

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Apparently I've been reading a lot on Evangelism...

I just finished reading Becoming a Contagious Christian by Bill Hybels and Mark Mittleburg. Hybles being the most senior pastor at Willow Creek and Mittleburg (when it was written in '95) the pastor of evangelism wanted to share their vision and personal stories of how they have become Christians who've discovered that the most invigorating feeling of leading people to Christ. They are trying to help people realize that is fun and exciting, scary and intimidating to lead people to Christ, but at the same time necessary. At one point they actually say that no one is excused when it comes to sharing the gospel.

When I was in Junior High because of our Sunday School curriculum we had a lesson on Evangelism. I remember asking the teacher whether or not they had the experience and if they could tell us about it. The teacher looked at their notes and then looked to the class and that they hadn't ever led anyone to Christ and that wasn't there goal. Their goal was to be a seed-planter. They meant that they didn't believe that all were called to be an "evangelizer" and that some people are and some aren't. They weren't doing what they were preaching. I knew then that they were wrong and I know now that we are all called to evangelize.

Thursday, September 06, 2007

They Like Jesus But Not The Church

I just finished They Like Jesus But Not The Church by Dan Kimball. Thanks Robb for the recommendation. This book adds so much to my internal conversation about evangelism. How do we share Jesus with people today? Is it different for just a few years ago? What do people think about the church, and why? These are all valid questions, that most pastors and church leaders - myself included - have neglected.

After reading this book I have to ask myself two questions, how many non-Christians do I know? and how many of them am I developing relationships with? I am challenged with these questions because I ask students and lay people of the church to constantly be a missionary in our community and I wont or haven't done it myself. I have led by example.

This book opened my eyes to understanding our culture as a mission field all the time. We need to be prepared to have conversations with non-Christians in order to just build relationships with them even if they never come to Christ. It's not about notches in our evangelism belt, but about loving others the way that Christ loves us.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

A New Kind of Youth Ministry

I just finished Chris Folmbee's A New Kind of Youth Ministry, he obviously is trying to focus on using Brian McLaren's A New Kind of Christian identity to associate himself with Emergent thinking, but never actually claims that he is coming from that perspective. He does, however, mention that he and Brian talk quite frequently.

Chris is the president of Sonlife Ministries.

I felt as though he had some great thoughts on where Youth ministry should head. I personally enjoyed his thoughts on how we should teach students. No one learns anything great when somebody just stands in front of you and speaks. He called for youth pastor's to become more learner-centered instead of teacher-centered.

He called for the youth ministry to change the way it does evangelism in order to teach students to evangelize rather than just bring unsaved friends and relatives to an appropriate program where the gospel is being presented. He actually asks the question. If all we do as youth pastors is give students opportunity to bring lost friends to evangelistic events when will the students learn how to witness to their friends.

His perspectives come from a wide variety of experience and conversations. Chris gives some very practical ways in which youth leaders, workers or pastors can make some greatly needed changes in youth ministry.

All in all I would recommend this book to any who have an interest in serving in Youth Ministry. I believe that he asks questions that each youth worker must answer in conjunction with their involvement in youth ministry.

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Dear Church

So, I just finished reading a book called, Dear Church. It is writen by Sarah Cunningham who is from Jackson, Michigan and was 28 at the time she wrote this book.

Its an interesting look at the "twentysomething's" view of the church in our culture. She wrote each chapter as if it were a letter to the universal church at large, spelling out her critisms and frustration with the church. She also wrote it from her experience and therefore wrote it to those who are "twentysomething." I found it engaging and enlightening. I found that it helped me articulate my thoughts, feelings, and critisms toward the church. What I found that I didn't really expect was that it was that it was challenge for me to start working on the holes that the church has and that gaps that the church is not filling. I feel as though my cynicism was not needed. And therefore, is something I should be apologizing for.

This book gave excellent and practical ways that we can minister to those who are "twentysomething" and also challenges those who are "twentysomething" to get involved in authentic Christian community.

Overall its a good read. I'd really recommend it to everyone in church ministry, as well as those who are "twentysomething".

Monday, August 20, 2007

A New Day Off!!!!!

Since I've been here at Sugar Grove I have had Thursday as my day off. It isn't the greatest day to have off, but that's what you get when you are the low man on the totempole! Anyway, I'm told today that all of the Pastoral staff will take Fridays off starting at the end of September. I am so excited about that you can't even believe it! Two day weekends! What a great idea!

Saturday, June 23, 2007

VBS Day 5...

Me: "Colin...Colin...? Oh there you are...I didn't expect to find you so fast..."

Colin: "umm...I...think...I......want to go home now...."

Me: "Do you want to sing songs?"

Colin: "no"

Me: "Do you want to listen to the story?"

Colin: "no"

Me: "umm...what do you want to do today at VBS?"

Colin: "umm...I...think...I......want to go home now...."

Here's to one long VBS week!

Thursday, June 21, 2007

VBS Day 4

"Colin...Colin...Colin...Colin?...Colin!?! Where's Colin? Uggghhh!"

10 minutes later...

"I was hiding!"

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

VBS Day 3

Colin...would you like a snack?

No...I'm not hungry (too much name tage eating!)

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

VBS...Days 1 & 2

Well, I decided to volunteer at VBS this week. I love working with kids and I've heard that our church does a fantastic job at running a VBS program. Well, they weren't kidding! It is really run well, of course there is plenty of room for improvement, but the kids really seem like they are enjoying it...

Day 1
"Colin...Colin...Colin...Colin...Colin...Stop eating your name tag..."

Day2
"Colin...Colin...Colin...Colin...Colin...What did I tell you yesterday...name tags are not for eating..."